"You are right that these large cockatoos are separate and above but you don't want to believe it"?? I have no idea of what that even means.
I believe in balance when it comes to animals, not swinging the pendulum one way or the other. I believe in respect and understanding an animal, not spoiling it to make up for past neglect. This generation of cockatoos don't even know they are birds, and that is completely due to us. I also believe (strongly) in respecting the humans who undertake the difficult task of befriending one of these majestic birds. So unless these bird can create accounts of their own and talk directly to you then I am afraid communicating with humans is as good as it gets.